Tombstone Tuesday-Animal Tombstone Art

Occasionally you will see an animal that is part of a tombstone.

I’m not talking about live animals, like squirrels, which I often see scurrying around in cemeteries and jumping up on tombstones. 

Woodland Cemetery, Van Wert

I am referring to an animal that is sculpted as part of the monument. Animals are not commonly used as tombstone symbols.

Although many squirrels live in cemeteries, squirrels are rarely seen as a tombstone symbol. So this grave marker was a rare find. The deceased evidently enjoyed squirrels as well as the outdoors. 

Squirrel, Gethsemane Cemetery, St. Marys, Ohio

Squirrels are sometimes used on totems. Because these rodents are so active, they symbolize that we should not waste time as we go through our life journey. In Native American myths squirrels symbolize fertility because they give birth to many babies at one time.

I have seen a dog incorporated on a tombstone just a couple times. Dogs are loyal, faithful, vigilant, and watchful. They symbolize love and family affection.  

This dog, Mage, was most likely a beloved family pet.

Dog, Greenlawn Cemetery, Wapakoneta

A dog is carved on one inner wall of this unusual tombstone and a lamb is carved on the other wall.

Dog, Elm Grove Cemetery, St. Marys, Ohio

Dog & lamb carved, Elm Grove Cemetery, St. Marys, Ohio

Lamb, Elm Grove, St. Marys, Ohio

Lambs are probably the most common animals seen on a tombstone. I have written about them before and they are usually found on a child’s tombstone. They signify purity and innocence.

There are also pet markers for pet cemeteries.

Darke County, Ohio

 

Headington House Hotel x 3

Last week I wrote about the two local Headington House Hotels, one in Portland, Indiana, in the 1870s, the other in Celina, Ohio, in the mid-1900s.

Surprise! As I continued my research I learned about yet another Headington House Hotel in Portland in the early 1900s.

I have concluded that Headington House Hotels are a family tradition in this area. Nimrod Headington built the first one in Portland in 1870 and operated it for 12 years. Nimrod’s nephew, his brother Eli’s son James M. Headington (1857-1948), built and operated a Headington Hotel and Café in Portland from 1896-1912. [1] Celina’s Headington House Hotel was owned and operated by Ken Headington’s widow Elma from 1937-1970, and Ken was the nephew of James M. Headington, the brother of Ken’s father John Eli. Seems to be an uncle-nephew thing.

I can see why the name was so popular. Headington House Hotel has a nice ring to it and is a good example of alliteration.

After learning about Celina’s Headington House Hotel I wanted to know if and how I was related to the hotel’s namesake Ken Headington. I knew how I was related to the proprietor of Portland’s first Headington House Hotel and I suspected I was also distantly related to Celina’s, too.

Snyder home, later the Headington House, Celina, Ohio, 1882 sketch.

Widow Elma (Hartzell) Headington purchased the impressive Snyder home, located at 129 E. Market, Celina, in 1934, a year after the death of her husband Kenneth Glen “Ken” Headington. Ken Headington died in 1933 and had nothing to do with the operation of Celina’s Headington House. The hotel was likely the source of income for widow Elma. However, Ken undoubtedly knew his uncle James M. Headington and visited his Headington Hotel in Portland in the early 1900s.

Below I detail my ancestry to Ken Headington.

Starting back in time with ancestors Nicholas (1790-1856) and Ruth Frizzell (Phillips) (1794-1865) Headington, who were originally from Baltimore, Maryland. They moved to Knox County, Ohio, in the early 1820s and then to Jay County, Indiana, in the early 1850s. Nicholas and Ruth had 10 children and among them were sons William (1815-1879), Nimrod (1827-1913), and Eli (1836-1864). I descend from son William Headington and his wife Mary Ann Cottrell (1816-1903). Nimrod Headington established and operated the Headington House Hotel in Portland in the 1870s, after sailing to California for the gold rush in 1852 and serving in the Civil War. Ken Headington descends from William and Nimrod’s younger brother Eli Headington.

Eli Headington married Caroline/Cornelia Osborne (1837-1923) in Jay County on 27 August 1856. [2] One of their three children was John Eli Headington (1864-1926).

John Eli Headington married Lillie E. White (1864-1895) in Jay County on 21 October 1882. [3] Lillie White was the daughter of William M. and Martha J. (Darley) White. John Eli and Lillie Headington had at least 3 children, Kenneth Glen, born in Portland 1 November 1888; Lacey Dias Headington (1886-1942) [4]; and Madge Headington (1884-1920).

Ken Headington’s mother Lillie died 18 September 1895, when Ken was only 6 years old. Ken’s widowed father John Eli married widow Ruth (Broughman) White (1862-1951) on 31 May 1896. Ruth was the widow of John A. White (1858-1895). Interesting that Ken’s mother Lillie (White) and John White (husband of Ruth (Broughman) and were brother and sister. [5] Ken’s aunt by marriage became his stepmother. Ruth and John White had at least 2 children, Charles Irwin White (1880-1954) and Darwin Barnes Orville White (1888-1918).

In 1900 the John Eli Headington family lived in Bellefontaine, Ohio, where the father John Eli worked for Country Produce. The John Eli Headington family in 1900: John Eli Headington, 35, head; Ruth Headington, 37, wife; Madge Headington, 16, daughter; Lacey Headington, 13, son; Ken Headington, 10, son; and Darwin White, 10, stepson. [6]

By 1910 John Eli, Ruth, and Ken Headington had moved to Celina and were living at 440 Livingston Street. John Eli worked for a poultry company and Ken was a delivery clerk at a post office. [7]

In 1916 John Eli, Ruth, and Ken Headington lived at 304 E. Market Street in Celina, according to the 1916 Farm Journal Directory.

Ken Headington’s WWI Draft Registration, signed 5 June 1917, indicates he was single, lived on South Ash Street, and worked as a mail clerk at a post office. He was 5’ 6”, 148 pounds with black hair and blue eyes. [8]

Ken Headington married Elma Hartzell in Mercer County on 6 July 1917. Elma Hartzell was born in Fort Recovery, Ohio, on 24 March 1892, the daughter of George and Mary (Stoner) Hartzell.

Ken and Elma had a daughter, Jean (1918-1999), born 6 November 1918. In 1920 Ken Headington, 31, Elma, 27, wife, and daughter Jean, 1, lived in a home they rented at 219 South Ash Street in Celina. Ken worked as a clerk in a post office. Ken’s parents, John Eli and Ruth Headington lived nearby, at 231 South Ash and John Eli was a manager at Long E Produce. [9]    

In 1930 Ken, 41; Elma, 38; and Jean L, 11, lived at 502 Fulton and Ken was a postal clerk. They owned their home and they had a radio as well. [10]

Ken Glen Headington died in Celina on 1 August 1933. At the time of his death he resided at 505 E. Fulton. Ken is buried in Green Park Cemetery in Portland. He is likely buried near his parents, although I have not confirmed that.  

Ken’s widow Elma purchased the former Snyder home from widow Jennie S. Bedell in 1937 and opened the Headington House Hotel soon after. Elma resided there and continued to operate the hotel until a few days before her death on 6 May 1970. Elma is buried in North Grove Cemetery in Celina.  

The Standard Printing Company purchased the Headington House in 1972, the home originally built by A.P.J. Snyder in 1871. They eventually razed the home and expanded their printing operation.

To answer the original question, Ken Headington was my 2nd cousin four times removed. Another way of looking at it, he was the grand-nephew of my 4th great-grandfather William Headington.

And that’s going back a long way!

[1] Muncie Evening Press, Muncie, Indiana, 28 Dec 1948, p.1, J.M. Headington obituary; Newspapers.com, viewed 24 Feb 2022. 

[2] Index to Marriage Records 1850-1920, Jay County, Indiana, WPA Records, Book C-B, Eli Headington & Cornelia Osborn, 27 Aug 1856; database on-line, Ancestry.com, viewed 24 Feb 2022.  

[3] Index to Marriage Records 1850-1920, Jay County, Indiana, WPA Records, Book C-E, p.330, John Headington & Lillie E White, 21 Oct 1882; database on-line, Ancestry.com, viewed 24 Feb 2022.  

[4] Index to Birth Records 1880-1920, WPA, Indiana, Lacy Headington, 25 Nov 1886; database on-line, Ancestry.com, viewed 24 Feb 2022. 

[5] 1870 U.S. Census, Pike, Jay, Indiana, p.143B, dwelling 280, family 282, John A White; digital image by subscription, Ancestry.com, viewed 24 Feb 2022. [William White household: John A White, 12 & Lillie E White, 6, among children listed; relationships not given, but ages and names agree.]

[6] 1900 U.S. Census, Bellefontaine Ward 2, Logan, Ohio, ED 111, p.3, dwelling & family 75, JE Headington; digital image by subscription, Ancestry.com, viewed 24 Feb 2022.

[7] 1910 U.S. Census, Celina Ward 2, Mercer, Ohio, ED 117, p.8A, dwelling & family 1, John E Headington; digital image by subscription, Ancestry.com, viewed 24 Feb 2022.

[8] U.S. World War I Draft Registration Cards, 1917-1918, Mercer County, Ohio, Kenneth G Headington; database in-line, Ancestry.com, viewed 24 Feb 2022.

[9] 1920 U.S. Census, Celina, Mercer, Ohio, ED 137, p.10A, dwelling 230, house 233, Ken Headington; digital image by subscription, Ancestry.com, viewed 31 Jan 2021).

[10] 1930 U.S. Census, Celina, Mercer, Ohio, ED 15, p.7B, dwelling 178, family 190, Kenneth G Headington; digital image by subscription, Ancestry.com, viewed 24 Feb 2022).

Tombstone Tuesday-Adam J. Buechner

Adam J Buechner, Zion Lutheran Cemetery, Van Wert County, Ohio. (2012 photo by Karen)

This is the tombstone of Adam J. Buechner, located in row 9 of Zion Lutheran Cemetery, Schumm, Van Wert County, Ohio. The marker is inscribed:

Adam J.
26 Apr. 1822
11 Maerz 1885
Alter
62 J, 10 M, 15 T
Text: John. 13 v.7
BUECHNER

Adam Johann Buechner was born in Hainstadt, Hessen Darmstadt, on 26 April 1822, according to Zion Schumm’s records. 

Adam Buechner was married twice. His first wife was Margaretha “Rosina” (Grund) and they married 9 September 1858 at Zion Schumm.

Adam and Rosina (Grund) Buechner had 2 children:
Johann Jakob Martin “Jacob J” (1859-1917), married Caroline Reidenbach
Johann Friedrich (1860-1929), married Caroline C. Grote

The Adam Buechner family in 1860: Adam, 38; Rosina, 21; and John, 1. Adam was a shoemaker. His place of birth is shown as Hesse Darmstadt and Rosina’s as Wuerttemberg. Son John was born in Ohio. [1]

Rosina (Grund) Buechner died 11 February 1861 and is buried in row 3 of Zion Schumm’s cemetery.

Widower Adam Buechner married widow Anna Barbara (Pflueger) Schumm on 17 September 1861. Anna Barbara (Pflueger) (1822-1908) was the widow of immigrant Ludwig “Louis” Schumm, who died 22 August 1855. Widow Anna Barbara had seven living children from her marriage to Louis Schumm at the time of her marriage to Adam Buechner. [Louis and Anna Barbara Schumm were my second and third great-grandparents.]

Adam and Anna Barbara (Pflueger) had two children:
Marguerite Catharine Marie Buechner (1863-1940), married Fred G. Kreiselmeyer
William A. Buechner (1865-1955), married Katharine Magdalena Schumm

The Adam Buechner family in 1870: Adam, 48; Barbara, 47; John, 20; Rosina, 22; Hannah, 17; Jacob, 11; Frederick, 9; Margaret, 6; and William, 4. Adam was a farmer and both he and Barbara were born in Germany. [2]

The Adam Buechner family in 1880: Adam, 58; Barbara, 58; John G, 30, stepson; Margaret M, stepdaughter; and William MA, 14, son. Adam was a farmer. They were enumerated next to Zion Schumm’s minister Rev. Seemeyer and next to Friedrick and Magdalena Schumm, and likely were neighbors. [3]

Adam Buechner died from lung and asthma problems at 2:00 in the morning of 11 March 1885. He was 62 years, 10 months, and 15 days old and was buried on the 13th.

[1] 1860 U.S. Census, Willshire, Van Wert, Ohio, p.426, dwelling 1082, family 1076, Adam Bickner; digital image by subscription, Ancestery.com, viewed 21 Feb 2022.

[2] 1870 U.S. Census, Willshire, Van Wert, Ohio, p.439A, dwelling 134, family 135, Adam Buechner; digital image by subscription, Ancestry.com, viewed 21 Feb 2022.  [Note that all the children’s surnames are shown as Buechner, some of them are Schumms, from Anna Barbara’s first marriage to Louis Schumm]

[3] 1880 U.S. Census, Willshire, Van Wert, Ohio, ED 154, p.450C, family 130, Adam Beichner; digital image by subscription, Ancestry.com, viewed 21 Feb 2022.

The Two Headington House Hotels

Name something Portland, Indiana, and Celina, Ohio, have in common.

Actually, the towns probably have several things in common, but I am thinking of one specific thing that relates to my family history.

Both Portland and Celina had a Headington House Hotel at one time.

I have Headington ancestry and I have learned that I am distantly connected to the proprietors of both establishments.

The Headington surname was rather common in Portland, but not common in Celina. I knew about Portland’s Headington House, built in 1870 by Nimrod Headington (1827-1913), but I was surprised to learn that Celina also had a Headington House, information that I learned from Joyce Alig.

Although both homes were built just a year apart, one in 1870 and the other in 1871, Celina’s stately home would not be known as the Headington House until the 1930s.   

Portland’s Headington House

The Headington House in Portland was built in 1870 by Nimrod Headington. Nimrod Headington was the brother of my fourth great-grandfather, William Headington. The Headingtons were originally from Maryland.

A couple years ago I posted Nimrod Headington’s 1852 journal, Trip to California, in a number of installments. In his journal, Headington recounted his travels from Knox County, Ohio, to New York, where he boarded the sailing ship Racehound and sailed around South America to California, to join the California gold rush. After his adventure he returned to Knox County, served in the Civil War, and eventually moved to Portland, where he built the Headington House Hotel and later was appointed the town’s postmaster.

Nimrod Headington (1827-1913)

Nimrod Headington ran the hotel for 12 years, according to his 1901 biography. The 1880 census indicates Nimrod Headington was a hotel keeper in Portland.

 Below is an ad for Portland’s Headington House, printed in the Fort Wayne Daily Gazette, 16 December 1873:

1873 ad for Headington House, from Ft. Wayne Daily Gazette.

Unfortunately, the ad does not give the address of the Hotel. I do not know where the hotel was located, how long it operated, or if it is still standing. I have no photo of it.

Celina’s Headington House

Celina’s Headington House Hotel did not start out as the Headington House. It was originally the Snyder Home, built in 1871 by Alexis Parker Jones Snyder, aka A.P.J. Snyder (1828-1901). Snyder was one of the early publishers of Mercer County newspapers, papers known through the years as The Mercer County Standard, The Western Standard, and today as The Daily Standard.

The Snyder House was located on the northwest corner of East Market and North Ash Street in Celina. The address was 129 E. Market. It was just east of today’s The Daily Standard Building and across the street from the Riley House, currently the home of Mercer County Historical Museum.

The six-bedroom cost $700 to build in 1871.

Snyder home, later the Headington House, Celina, Ohio, 1882 sketch, Mercer/Van Wert County History.

The Snyder House stayed in the Snyder family until 1925, when the family sold it to John and Jennie S. Bedell. In 1937 widow Jennie S. Bedell sold the house and property to widow Elma D. (Hartzell) Headington (1892-1970).

Elma was the widow of Kenneth Glen Headington. So technically, I was related to her husband Ken Headington (1888-1933).

The 1940 census shows Elma’s address as 129 East Market, but no occupation was given for her.

The 1953 and 1960 Celina City Directories both indicate that Elma Headington was the widow of KG, living at the Headington House Hotel, 129 E. Market St. The next entry is the Headington House Hotel, 129 E. Market, furnished rooms. Both entries have the same phone number, 3134. [1] 

Headington House, Celina, Ohio

Elma (Hartzell) Headington died in Celina 6 May 1970. According to her obituary she was born in Fort Recovery 24 March 1892, the daughter of George Douglas and Mary Elizabeth (Stoner) Hartzell. Elma married Kenneth Headington in 1916 and he died in 1933.

Her obituary said that Elma Headington owned and operated the Headington House in Celina since 1934 and that she had closed her doors a week before her death.

After Elma’s death the house and property passed to her daughter Jean. The Standard Printing Company purchased the property from Elma’s daughter in 1972.

Celina’s Headington House, originally the Snyder House, was torn down sometime after 1972 and the Standard Printing Company added an addition to their existing structure where the house once stood.

I have only the old sketch of the house but I would love to see a more recent photo, before it was torn down.

A couple other interesting bits of Headington trivia:

There is village named Headington in the U.K. In the village of Headington there is a Headington House, built 1775-1783, as well as a Headington Manor House. It appears both are still standing.

Nimrod Headington had a niece named Celina Headington (1854-1856). Celina was the daughter of William and Mary Ann (Cottrell) Headington, my direct Headington ancestors. William and Nimrod were brothers.

Next week, how I am related to Ken Headington.

[1] U.S., City Directories, 1822-1995, Celina, Ohio, 1953, p.231 and 1960, p.339, Elma Headington & Headington House; database on-line, Ancestry.com.

Tombstone Tuesday-Clasped Hands Symbol

A common carving seen on older tombstones is a pair of clasped hands, what appears to be a handshake. This symbol was commonly used during the Victorian era.

Clasped hands, Elm Grove Cemetery, St. Marys, Ohio.

Clasped hands most often represent the hands of a husband and wife. Usually a cuff is visible on each wrist and the cuffs are usually different, one masculine, a man’s shirt cuff, and the other feminine, the cuff of a lacy blouse or dress. Some hands have straight fingers and others have bent fingers.

Clasped hands, Ridge-Slater Cemetery, Van Wert County, Ohio.

Clasped hands with different cuffs symbolize holy matrimony/marriage. They may symbolize the spouse who died first guiding their partner to heaven and greeting them there.

Greenbriar Cemetery, Van Wert County, Ohio.

Sometimes the word farewell or the phrase we will meet again is written near the hands.

Clasped hands, Elm Grove Cemetery, St. Marys, Ohio.

Clasped hands may symbolize a final farewell to the deceased or a heavenly welcome.

East Bethel Cemetery, Mercer County, Ohio.

Clasped hands, Elm Grove Cemetery, St. Marys, Ohio.

Clasped hands, Zion Lutheran Cemetery, Schumm, Ohio.

Clasped hands, Ridge-Slater Cemetery, Van Wert County, Ohio.

Occasionally the clasped hands symbol will have two men’s cuffs, symbolizing God grasping the deceased’s hand and welcoming them into heaven and eternal life.  

Clasped hands with same cuffs, Elm Grove Cemetery, St. Marys, Ohio.